A strong woman works out every day to keep her body in shape ….
but a woman of strength kneels in prayer to keep her soul in shape…
A strong woman isn’t afraid of anything …
but a woman of strength shows courage in the midst of her fear…
A strong woman won’t let anyone get the best of her …
but a woman of strength gives the best of her to everyone…
A strong woman makes mistakes and avoids the same in the future…
a woman of strength realizes life’s mistakes can also be God’s blessings and capitalizes on them…
A strong woman walks sure footedly …
but a woman of strength knows God will catch her when she falls…
A strong woman wears the look of confidence on her face …
but a woman of strength wears grace…
A strong woman has faith that she is strong enough for the journey …
but a woman of strength has faith that it is in the journey that she will become strong…
a strong woman is one who gets her heart broken time and time
again and still has the strength to gather the pieces to create a new
life for herself. Remember that no matter what pain you’ve
been through, tears will dry, broken hearts will heal, and somewhere out
there the person who truly cares is waiting. you’re a woman and you are strong.
” I’ve come to realize that you can’t depend upon other people for
what you want, and you can’t be scared to go out there and get it. You
have to dream hard, wish big, and chase after your goals, because no
one else is going to do it for you. And even if things don’t work out,
you’ll always be able to say you tried.”
“I don’t know how to hold on..to anything. In the end, I always end
up letting go because I’m scared. But why am I scared? What am I scared
of? I’m pretty sure once I find the answers to those questions, I’ll
finally be able to hold on.”
“Maybe you don’t like your job, maybe you didn’t get enough
sleep. Well, nobody likes their job, nobody got enough sleep. Maybe you
just had the worst day of your life, but you know, there’s no escape and there’s no excuse, so just suck it up and be nice.” - Ani DiFranco ‘Pixie’
Don’t let a bad day make you feel like you have bad life.
Without bad days, how would you be able to know what a good day is like?
You have to believe that when things are bad, You can change them.
So be grateful about your bad day, it means that a good day is just around the corner. Com’on SMILE :)
“I’ve tried to block your memory to protect me from the pain,
pretend I never knew you, and never heard your name. But the walls
aren’t strong enough and I fight my tears in vain. The feeling came
creeping through and the hurt is still the same. I wish I could forget
you, or make you see me now. The pain will ease in time, and though I
know it’s over and what we had is gone, the memories will live forever
in a corner of my mind.”
She: God after a long time i saw him today, he looks so happy.
He didnt noticed me but i saw him smiling, he looks so fine. I know how i
asked you to take care of him, to always make him safe and happy. I
know how im asking you to make him feel love and even asked you to bring
the right girl for him, someone who can take care of him, someone who
will love him. But why im feeling this way God? im hurting, i dont
understand, i should be happy for him but im not. I feel bad, it
shouldn’t be this way
God: i understand, dont worry it is natural to feel that way. You will get better, i promise.
She:
but God, Why? I dont like this feelings, it feels like my heart is
breaking again… It took me a years to put the pieces back together and i
thought im already okay but seeing him again makes it painful again.
Why?
God: because you love.
She: Does it really have to hurt?
God: because that is how you will learn. You will be okay, can
you please trust me? I am here, i will take that pain away, all you have
to do is to let go, really just fully let go…everthing that is in your
heart right now, that pain, anger, everything and just trust me! i am
here for you. i love you.
You have come into my life through a door I was afraid
would never be opened again, for many have slammed it on their way out.
So please feel free to stay as long as you’d like. But should the time come that you must leave - please, close the door gently as you go.
I’m so paranoid of getting
hurt. I am always getting my heart broken over and over. My heart has
so many scars and bruises all over it. I don’t know how much just one
heart can take really, and I don’t really want to find out either.
Actually, I’m a little scared to get close to anyone because everyone that said “i’ll be there”… left.
“The more we start liking somebody, the more we fear losing
them. It’s a human tendency because we can’t afford to lose a person
chosen among millions.”
I’ve been thinking a lot lately about taking chances. And
how it’s really just about overcoming your
fears. Because the truth is, every time you take a big risk in your
life, no matter how it ends up, you’re always glad you
took it. ~ Scrubs
But sometimes, I just can’t make myself believe in this advise. I really wish I could, i sometimes ask myself, “why are you so scared? what is it that makes you feel that way? why?”
but…..the truth is, im scared. im scared of everything, and i don’t
know why. I’m not brave as you think i am. I’m scared of never feeling
any differently than I do now. I’m scared of always feeling bad but I’m
also scared of feeling good. I’m scared of bad things happening to me
but I’m also scared of good things happening to me because it would be
so not what I’m used to. I feel trapped by my fear. I feel immobilized
by my fear. I’m scared that I’m going to stay in the exact same place
I’m in right now forever. I’m scared that I’ll never move beyond where I
am. I’m scared that I don’t have enough courage to take the healthy
risks I need to take in order to grow and change and do things
differently. I’m scared that I’ll never learn to like myself let alone
love myself. I’m scared of living, really living, not just existing.
There are people in my life who say they love me but I’m scared of
never really knowing that they love me; scared of never really feeling
loved by someone else. I’m scared of missing opportunities that I may
never get back again. I’m scared of wasting time. I’m scared that in a
blink of my eyes I will reach the end of my life and I will have
realized that I haven’t lived. I’m scared. I’m scared of everything. - adapted
I get up
every morning and go to bed every night, with this feeling that
something is missing, but I don’t know what and I don’t know why. This
emptiness is just killing me, and I can’t do anything, not even cry.
I sometimes pretend to be happy, talking a lot and laughing out loud
so that nobody would know what’s really inside. But at the end of the
day, I always find myself all alone, encountering the crucial truth that
I’m too broken inside that not even a million laughter can take it
away.
sorry this is a sad post
This isn’t a perfect world…people get hurt.
you smile when you feel like crying.
you act like your okay when your falling apart.
but you gotta let go and move on…
Because there’s nothing else you can do.
I know it hurts. I know that. But if you give up now, you may
be missing something greater than you could ever have imagined. And no
one wants to miss something that will change their life forever. Just
keep holding on, and I promise it’ll get better. it always does, have
faith.
“I’ve been trying not to love you, I’ve been putting up a fight.
I’ve been barely holding on and letting go with all my might. There’s a
part of me that’s empty, I know only love can fill. I’m afraid I’ll
never find it and scared to death I will.” - Mark Wills
It’s like when you meet a person who is just want you’ve always
wanted… its when you meet that person who enjoys doing everything that
you enjoy.. and who can stump and interest you.. and stimulate you… its
that person who makes you realize why it never worked out with anyone
else.. its like meeting that person.. and telling yourself that you
wont fall in love with them.. that one way or another you’ll keep your
heart in some gigantic box in your chest and not allow it to feel a
damn thing until you say its okay… lets not fool ourselves.. emotions..
all of them.. are uncontrollable.. you cant keep yourself from
crying.. just like you cant stop yourself from falling in love.. and like you cant stop someone from falling out of love.. it happens.. it occurs.. and it sucks.
And now I felt like I had to get out of there or get away from you
because I might really care about you, and it scared me so much because
that meant that you could hurt me. And maybe I didn’t feel ready to
like someone that much right now.
Actually, what im trying to say is maybe I’m scared to say I’m falling for you.
Whoever you are reading this, i do. i love you.
“Always remember this: somewhere, someone is happy…simply because you exist.”
You. Yes, you. I am writing this for you.
I know you are reading this. And I want you to know I am writing
this for you. No one else will understand. No one else knows. They
think that this is for them. But it’s not. I am writing this for you.
I want you to know, life…it’s hard. Every day can be a challenge. It
can be a challenge to get up in the morning. To get yourself out of
bed. To put on that smile. But I want you to know, that smile is what
keeps me going some days. You need to remember, even through the tough
times, you are amazing. You really are.
You should be happy. You are gorgeous.
I know that the weather might not be perfect. You might have to turn
your back to the wind or feel the cold nipping at your nose. But you
know what, at least you are there to feel it. At least you can enjoy
the sun’s warm rays on your face. Or that cold February wind biting at
your cheeks. You know what that means?
You are alive.Everything will be okay.
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